Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship. It’s essential to treat each other with respect and avoid using threats or intimidation to get your point across.

In a loving relationship, both partners should feel valued and heard. When a man shouts at his wife, he’s not only disrespecting her but also damaging their bond. Instead of resorting to shouting or threats, a man should strive to communicate his feelings in a calm and respectful manner.

True love is not about controlling or dominating someone; it’s about cherishing and respecting their individuality. When a man truly loves his wife, he’ll naturally show her respect and consideration. This will create a strong and lasting connection between them.

Throughout history, many men have believed that fear and intimidation are the keys to controlling their wives. However, this approach only leads to resentment and unhappiness. Over time, the woman’s spirit will rebel, and she may seek ways to assert her own power.

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Instead of trying to dominate or control his wife, a man should focus on building a loving and respectful relationship. When he treats her with kindness and understanding, she’ll naturally be more receptive to his needs and desires.

Remember, love is not about power or control; it’s about mutual respect and understanding. By treating his wife with the love and respect she deserves, a man can create a happy and fulfilling relationship for both of them.

At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his 20 years old wife and his father called him aside and said to him, ‘We only shout at people our shouts or threats can frighten. But not to your wife.

The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats make her stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets subdued, but women are not changed with fear.’

A woman may stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her. She is evaluating the man’s weakness and how to subdue him rather.

Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat their wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they suffering consequences.

Those women their husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today, the mothers have their children’s sympathy, the men are at the receiving end.

Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman’s heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, ‘Husbands, love your wife’. Do you need an elaborate explanation of this scripture? Love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to you without qualms. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.

Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive.

Learn to love your woman today!